Guides for hosts

The questions that come up before anyone opens a design tool: how to word the thing, what to ask, and how many people you can actually invite.

How to word a wedding invitation

Invitation wording is a small piece of writing with a lot of expectation attached. The good news is that it follows a shape, and once you can see the shape you can bend it as far as you like.

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What to ask on an RSVP, and what to leave out

Every extra question costs you replies. Every missing question costs you a week of messages. This is how to land between the two.

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How to build a wedding guest list without falling out

The guest list is where the budget and the family meet, and it decides more about the day than the flowers ever will. Here is a way through it that keeps both intact.

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